Are we becoming a society of singles?

Love, relationships, heartaches, headaches, break ups and divorce – they are not keywords for this article lol – they are what comprises the love hate dating cycle of majority of today’s couples. Many are falling short of the confidence to hold up relationships for long term. One way or the other, what we see is happening with other couples and based on what we experienced, have greatly affected our insights of how an ideal relationship has become one marital failure and producing children from broken families. Marital problems seem to be endless and are fast becoming the fad of today’s generation. Remaining single allows one to move on without the hassle of hiring divorce lawyers, going to court to wrestle for property share or even fight for child support.

This is what becomes of a society which is fast losing hope to find their ideal love. People change as fast as computer software and along with it priorities change too. Many singles have been lurking on online dating sites and sometimes even paying matchmakers to look for their match. People have been meaning to find love. Love whose definition should be aligned on their individual meaning, thoughts and need. Some can’t even define what they want in their life, what they look for in a partner and what they need to do to look for something even them can’t define at all.

I say being single when you haven’t settle up your priorities and your goals is better than losing up a big part of you and breaking marriages. Somehow love will come if it will come. You have done everything you can to find it and it hasn’t come yet. Maybe this is not a good time for that yet so move on. Make life a better life and learn to find love by simply giving out love. Yes, give out love to the people around you. What you give is what you are! You give love because you are full of love! Some people may not be able to understand what you are giving because they haven’t known it yet. Don’t despair, love and give out love!

Compassion, respect, empathy and care are very important in a relationship. When you give this out and radiate it to the world around you then one day it will come back to you in full return and bonuses. You get back your love in return. You get what you wanted for in life – LOVE!