The best language of love is caring

I realized that people may not be able to maintain their relationships if one stops caring. The only way I see that you can sustain a harmonious relationship is to care really on how your partner think and feel. Needs are met at a different level in your relationship. If you love your man and are willing to keep him and your relationship then you need to let go of some of your needs to accommodate his needs.

In a relationship, there is what we call as insensitivity and not keeping the balance of giving and receiving. Men are sometimes sweet but most of the times are what we call as cold and uncaring. It is very difficult to understand them if you really would look into it because they are not as expressive as much as women wants them to be. So step one. Forget about your needs and accommodate his needs first. Step two. Stop looking for more expressions because he only can express what he can express. Do not look for more.

If you can live with the first two steps, then you can faithfully do the third step. Love him! Just love him without expecting much in return. Do you think you can live with that? Lol women nowadays are takers too. They want something in return. Of course, who would not want their emotions reciprocated? Nevertheless, in this world there are men who just lack the energy and the expressions to give more of what they have because it is what they are. If you can live with it, then expect that you will be the one adjusting and showing more of the loving expressions than him. Well if you are comfortable with this situation then you will live lol. Happy loving!

Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah

I wanna hold em like they do in Texas Plays
Fold em let em hit me raise it baby stay with me, I love it
Luck and intuition play the cards with Spades to start
And after he's been hooked I'll play the one that's on his heart

Oh, oh, oh
I'll get him hot, show him what I've got
Oh, oh, oh
I'll get him hot, show him what I've got

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)

I wanna roll with him a hard pair we will be
A little gambling is fun when you're with me, I love it
Russian Roulette is not the same without a gun
And baby when it's love if it's not rough it isn't fun, fun

Oh, oh, oh
I'll get him hot, show him what I've got
Oh, oh, oh
I'll get him hot, show him what I've got

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
(Mum mum mum mah)
(Mum mum mum mah)

I won't tell you that I love you
Kiss or hug you
Cause I'm bluffin' with my muffin
I'm not lying I'm just stunnin' with my love-glue-gunning

Just like a chick in the casino
Take your bank before I pay you out
I promise this, promise this
Check this hand cause I'm marvelous

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)

Unconditional love is a rare gift of being

People, as we know it, are always in search of something. They seek ways to get what they want and often fail too. The question is, why do relationships fail?

Relationships fail because people only look for what they want. They do not think of what they can give. The law of nature is always giving what you want to receive. If you want to receive back unconditional lasting love then give to the world unconditional lasting love.

When you find someone that, you really want to love and take care for the rest of your life, give him the rare gift of being – unconditional lasting love. There is also a glitch to the system of loving. The person you love may cause you a lot of heartache and may not reciprocate what you give.

Relationships are two way: he gives and he receives as you give and you receive back love. If the system is not satisfied, then stop for a while and think if you are going to pursue with the relationship. I for one thing, will hold on to the relationship if there is a lot of reason to hold on – I love him! But sometimes loving is not enough, you need to be practical and realistic!

Enjoy the moment he is with you and take each day as it comes! He may or may not give more than he is capable of giving and loving. If you truly love him, then love him. If you think you had enough, then gradually drop him!

I’m yours dear! Love ya!

“Darling I never felt like this before in my life. I love you more each day! For sure, I will love and serve you until we grow old and part with our last breath in this world. You know how much I feel for you and that feeling is even growing each day as we talk and share whatever makes us happy or even quarrel at times lol. Do what you have to do even though I do not understand some things. I am confident you will be true to me as I will be true to you. I’m yours forever dear. I love you very much!”

Say, it with words, let your heart out. Let your heart beat and serve your love one all through your lifetime. It does not matter if you start from scratch. You only have to support each other every step of the way. There could be quarrels, painful quarrels at times. If you truly love each other, you will learn to accept the bad things as well as the good things. For love is not for the good things and fun only. It is all about acceptance, being a part of each other’s lives, and combining efforts to strive to live a better peaceful happy life together. The two of you can live a new life together. Love matters in everything that you do, not money, not appearances, not social status! Love and you will be happy.

Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks
and now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out
I'll be giving it my bestest
Nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love
Listen to the music of the moment maybe sing with me
A la peaceful melodies
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love loved love love

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and laughed
I guess what I'm saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do
Our name is our virtue

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
No need to complicate
Our time is short
It can not wait, I'm yours

Well no no, well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment come and dance with me
A la one big family (2nd time: A la happy family)
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love love love

I won't hesitate no more
Oh no more no more no more
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved, I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No I won't hesitate no more, no more
This cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours, I'm yours

How to flirt

Flirting is good if you do it the correct way. First, make sure the person you want to start a relationship does not have any other relationship. Do not attempt to steal hearts because it will hurt the other woman too. There is always someone out there for you. There is no need to steal and hurt other women. Flirting is an art. There is a total mystery in how one could attract and obtain the undivided attention of the other person. Observe some rules to your game and watch this video on how to make the first move.

The language of love

Get your love flowing and try to do the things your partner wants. This is meeting your partner halfway. Meeting your partners halfway will help you keep you relationship longer. What your partner wants matters in every way you need to keep hold of your relationship.

I do think this is most effective in keeping your relationships but sometimes may make you feel uncomfortable when you know you have given up a lot too. The best way is to give not too much that you will leave nothing for yourself. This kind of loving will make your partners take you for granted soon too.

Relationship is something you enjoy keeping, happy maintaining, and comfortable working out significant issues with your partner. Relationship is one thing I truly desire to keep with my partner. People in love desire to keep their relationship and their families together.

Grrrr I am jealous

This is not a matter of who is right or wrong. This time it is a matter of what women may feel when they see or hear their partners being closely acquainted with another woman. This could be heartbreaking ugh….

The first thing women do is quarrel their partners. I do not think that quarreling your partners will do you and your relationship any good. The best thing to do is talk it out and know the real score direct from your partner’s mouth and not from hearsay.

Open communication makes any relationship stronger each time you talk about something. Honesty is good when it comes to defining what makes each of you jealous. When you have agreed on something to keep your relationship from breaking then close the issue and never mention it again.

Move on…. You will be nagging him if you always mention something that happened in the past. Keep your relationship, close past issues and work for your future.

Forget pride, say sorry if you love her

People cry relentlessly in their own secret domains – their rest rooms or their bedrooms! They still love each other but they can’t bring themselves to say “I’m sorry”. Hellooooo…… that is not cool anymore!

I remember when I was caught up in between my pride and my feelings. I always choose my relationship, my man over my pride and myself. I always prioritize my man’s needs before mine and that includes pride.

Many relationships fail and many people suffer because they cannot bring themselves to say sorry. They cannot even bring themselves to negotiate their situations. It is torture to lose the man you love just because you cannot bring yourself to little minute adjustments.

Why should you make yourself suffer when you can still save your relationship? Understand that both of you were brought from different backgrounds, education, culture, family environment, and economic status. Those things I mention alone are hard to bridge. If you truly love each other, then find ways to meet halfway. Always communicate and talk things out.

The beauty of the relationship comes with the discovery that you can still love your partners amidst everything. Acceptance is very important and that begins with you! Accept that you have your own limitations and faults too. You need to say sorry when you hurt his or her feelings unintentionally.

Relationship means partnership

People who failed with their relationships will notice one thing. There was only him or her in the relationship. They never shared much about anything. Keeping secrets and not being open with each other will make you do things by yourself. You do not include your partner with your decisions because you do not really consider him as a partner. This would mean two things, you do not want any shared decisions, or you do not trust him at all. Relationships mean partnerships. You do want to spend your golden days with him so start sharing and do things that both of you enjoy. Asking for the opinion of your partner and doing what makes him feel comfortable with the relationship is a sign of love and respect. This I think will keep your relationships stronger each day.

Fall in love and do not mess around

Relationships last when both partners are faithful and true to each other. Nothing is constant in this world. There could be many changes during the course of the relationship. People could keep up with each other by trying not to find another relationship. When you find one, try to make the best out of it without messing around otherwise you will end up hopping from one relationship to another. This is a very tiresome task. If you want to be happy, try to be faithful with one partner. Give your partner your undivided attention and love. When you maintain a lot of dating relationships, you will end up just comparing one from the other without even spending time and effort to develop the relationship. This could be pathetic. You could be very confident you have the world at the tip of your fingertips. Then one day you will find yourself alone and lonely. Go for one partner, one love, and one relationship at a time! That is how it should be… or forevermore…. Loyalty….

Just dance Acoustic by Lady Gaga

Have fun! Think of nothing else and just have fun!

I notice that people who are worriers facilitate their aging process by incurring more wrinkles thinking of what life would bring. Well, life is full of ups and downs. Find love, hear the music of your heart and just be happy with it!

You can never change the past but you have the chance to change your present to make a better future. Self confidence darlings! I know you can do it and will do it if you are given the chance. The fact is, chances won’t be there at all if you don’t work for it.

I have a friend who does not think of problems at all. He does not worry about anything else but continue to be happy as he goes battling life and whatever comes in his tomorrow. I am not sure what stages of life or situation you are in now. I just want to share with you that worrying much will lead to another worry – your wrinkles and dry skin! So smile and be happy!