Life sucks

Loving your boyfriend honestly sucks

I know of a girl who loves her boyfriend honestly but her boyfriend kept on thinking she is not honest and been going to chatrooms looking for her Yahoo ID. Her boyfriend did not come online to talk to her all those times he was looking for her at different Yahoo chatrooms. And in those times, she was waiting for him online, sometimes crying because she was really worried about her boyfriend getting sick or maybe worse, had an accident. Life sucks!

Not chatting with other guys

Too much love is dangerous and unhealthy! Her boyfriend demanded she will not chat with other guys but sometimes when they talk about some things, her boyfriend will say, the girl I chatted says this and that….. ugh isn’t that great? He forbids you to chat but he is chatting! Life sucks!

Not telling his work and other work related matters

Her boyfriend wants her to understand how tired he was and how he was coping up with work pressure or whatever it is, but not telling what his work is all about. Her boyfriend just gave her an idea that he is doing a little of this and a little of that. Then his boyfriend wants to know everything about her. Isn’t that wonderful? She tells him everything about her work and her just being told by her boyfriend to wait until they meet personally and she will know and understand everything? What a one way relationship!!! Grrrr good that she is in love with him or she could have left him!!! Life sucks!

Absence makes the heart grow fonder

This is not true in their case I guess. Every time the boyfriend thinks of something negative or something that makes him uncomfortable, he does not go online. The girl will just wait on him until he comes back and it will be a week or two weeks or more. Then the reason would be as shallow as we cannot understand each other. You are difficult! Omigosh! He tells his girlfriend is difficult, the girlfriend does not even know what it was all about because he is not talking about it. So, if he does not go online for many days, it could mean three things, he is upset, he is sick, or he leaves you. Will you survive? Yes, she was crazy in love with him. Life sucks!

Discovering little things, big things

Her boyfriend put her on an appear offline mode in Yahoo Messenger because he was chatting and having webcam with other girls. The thought to request the webcam of her boyfriend just came to her mind even if she saw her boyfriend is offline and voila! The webcam was working and worst, her boyfriend declined her to view his webcam. Lol shocks! She was too shock, maybe the boyfriend too. What a life! Really, life sucks! This could not be too harsh if her boyfriend was not so possessive, jealous, and strict with her. Expectations could be hurting!

Relationships are great wonders as much as you wonder why you ever fallen for the guy. Obviously, the reality is there. The girlfriend loves her boyfriend very much. So don’t tell her she is crazy because really it is just that life sucks at times! Do you have a funny story to tell? Comment here as long as you like.

Tell Me Where It Hurts

Why is that sad look in your eyes 

Why are you crying 

Tell me now, tell me now 

Tell me, why you're feelin' this way 

I hate to see you so down, oh baby 

Is it your heart 

Oh, that's breakin' all in pieces 

Makin' you cry 

Makin' you feel blue 

Is there anything that I can do 

Why don't you tell me where it hurts now, baby 

And I'll do my best to make it better 

Yes, I'll do my best to make those tears all go away 

Just tell me where it hurts now, tell me 

And I love you with a love so tender 

Oh and if you let me stay 

I'll love all of the hurt away 

Where are all those tears coming from 

Why are they falling 

Somebody, somebody, somebody left your heart in the cold 

You just need somebody to hold on, baby 

Give me a chance to put back all the pieces 

Take your broken heart 

Make it just like new 

There's so many things that I can do 

Why don't you tell me where it hurts now, baby 

And I'll do my best to make it better 

Yes, I'll do my best to make those tears all go away 

Just tell me where it hurts now, tell me 

And I love you with a love so tender 

Oh and if you let me stay 

I'll love all of the hurt away 

(Instrumental) 

Oh I'm gonna take it all away, baby 

Is it your heart 

Oh, that's breakin' all in pieces 

Makin' you cry 

Makin' you feel blue 

Is there anything that I can do 

Why don't you tell me where it hurts now, baby 

And I'll do my best to make it better 

Yes, I'll do my best to make those tears all go away 

Just tell me where it hurts now, tell me 

And I love you with a love so tender 

Oh and if you let me stay 

I'll love all of the hurt away 

Tell me, baby 

Tell me, oh yea 

Is there anything I can do, baby 

Just tell me where it hurts now, tell me 

And I love you with a love so tender 

Oh and if you let me stay 

I'll love all of the hurt away

Connecting with your boyfriend through Google translation, baring language barrier

Google has great ideas to connect people across the globe offering their free Google Web and Text Translation software that is web based. Life is full of surprises, you go to the Yahoo chatroom, and then you meet the love of your life. If the love of your life happens to come from Turkey and does not understand much about English, then you may seek the aid of the Google Web and Text Translation software to help you out. Remember, communication is very important with relationships. Nothing will last long if you do not communicate effectively what you feel and what you think!

This is the link for the Google Text and Web Translation software

Sometimes When We Touch - Dan Hill

You ask me if I love you
And I choke on my reply
I'd rather hurt you honestly
Than mislead you with a lie
And who am I to judge you
On what you say or do?
I'm only just beginning to see the real you

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides

Romance and all its strategy
Leaves me battling with my pride
But through the insecurity
Some tenderness survives
I'm just another writer
Still trapped within my truth
A hesitant prize fighter
Still trapped within my youth

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides

At times I'd like to break you
And drive you to your knees
At times I'd like to break through
And hold you endlessly

At times I understand you
And I know how hard you've tried
I've watched while love commands you
And I've watched love pass you by

At times I think we're drifters
Still searching for a friend
A brother or a sister
But then the passion flares again

And sometimes when we touch
The honesty's too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide
I wanna hold you til I die
Til we both break down and cry
I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides

Love is not enough to keep relationships but commitment will fill in what love lacks!

People so in love to each other will lose that feeling one way or the other as time goes. The question is what if you are already married. Divorce is there of course but we need to know what really keeps people from breaking relationships and from filing a divorce.

Love at present is never a guarantee you can keep your man and your relationship forever. People change and so is love. It changes and it fades and often as you changes your clothes. Love trend is now like technology. It grows and outgrows the feelings fast because of choices. If you are looking for long term, lifetime, serious, honest relationship then put some commitment and determination as an add-on to your loving.

I assure you that at times love seems to fade away, your commitment and your determination to keep the relationship remains. That alone will motivate you to reach out and communicate to your partner again for whatever it is that had driven the little loving out. Reviving emotions is easy if you choose to regain what you lost. It is all your choice, your decision to have that feeling back. If you do not have the commitment, then expect that you will find it easier to start another one again than keep the one who loves you.

When I fall in love by Celine Dion

When I fall in love
It will be forever
Or I'll never fall in love

In a restless world
Like this is
Love is ended before it's begun
And too many
Moonlight kisses
Seem to cool in the warmth of the sun

When I give my heart
I give it completely
Or I'll never give my heart

And the moment I can feel that you feel that way too
Is when I fall in love with you

Marriage failing, losing touch, losing love

Failing relationships happen gradually and couples are not even aware they are traveling the road to marriage doomsday. Marriage failing because couples take the needs, desires, and interest of their partners for granted. Each day of being together is an opportunity for the couples to know each other more and learn more about each other’s needs. You do not stop learning and exploring the relationship if you get married. Adjustments are continuous, it does not have to end the moment you wear your wedding ring.

Spend time together

I understand all of you are busy with your work and other day-to-day task. Do spend time together at least an hour a day to talk about the day’s activities and pressures you experience. This will keep you closer.

Communicate what you think and feel

Communicating what you think and feel keeps you closer to each other. Do not ignore or keep what you think and feel to yourself or you will grow apart with your partner. Communication is very important for couples who are determined to keep each other, keep the relationship, and grow with the relationship.

You love and lost many times in the past. Grow and try to change your attitude and know what you need to keep you and your partner together.

Love fades in time

Finding a partner is not easy. During the first few months of the relationship, couples will undergo many adjustments to be able to understand and meet each other halfway. Whatever are your problems, do not attempt to insult or ridicule the intellect nor take the feelings of your partner for granted. You may find her successfully adjusting and taking your attitude for the first few months but soon she will realize you are not worth investing the time, the loving, and the caring. No matter how intense the feelings she has for you, it will always fade when left unattended and unreciprocated. Love slowly fades when you do not treat her right. A love that stays forever stays for three reasons – love, respect, and tact! So, treat her right while she is still with you because once she decides to close her doors you will not be able to win her back forever.

Bring Me To Life lyrics
Songwriters: Hodges, David; Lee, Amy; Moody, Ben;

How can you see into my eyes like open doors?
Leading you down into my core where I've become so numb
Without a soul, my spirit sleeping somewhere cold
Until you find it there and lead it back home

Wake me up
(Wake me up inside)
I can't wake up
(Wake me up inside)
Save me
(Call my name and save me from the dark)

Wake me up
(Bid my blood to run)
I can't wake up
(Before I come undone)
Save me
(Save me from the nothing I've become)

Now that I know what I'm without
You can't just leave me
Breathe into me and make me real
Bring me to life

Wake me up
(Wake me up inside)
I can't wake up
(Wake me up inside)
Save me
(Call my name and save me from the dark)

Wake me up
(Bid my blood to run)
I can't wake up
(Before I come undone)
Save me
(Save me from the nothing I've become)

I've been living a lie
There's nothing inside
Bring me to life

Frozen inside without your touch
Without your love, darling
Only you are the life among the dead

All this time, I can't believe I couldn't see
Kept in the dark but you were there in front of me
I've been sleeping a thousand years it seems
Got to open my eyes to everything

Without thought, without voice, without a soul
Don't let me die here
There must be something more
Bring me to life

Wake me up
(Wake me up inside)
I can't wake up
(Wake me up inside)
Save me
(Call my name and save me from the dark)

Wake me up
(Bid my blood to run)
I can't wake up
(Before I come undone)
Save me
(Save me from the nothing I've become)

I've been living a lie
There's nothing inside
Bring me to life

Take each day as it comes until love will find you

Search and rest your heart for a moment if you still cannot find what you are looking. Wondering if that love will ever come to rescue you from the pits of loneliness and misery, ooohhh!!!! Things do not always work the way you would want it to be. The more you seek for it, the more love will evade you. People do not regard love as the highest emotion that one need to treasure. Modern age man and woman seek love for comfort and convenience like a business transaction. You give me this and I give you this. It truly sounds like a business transaction now.

Your search for the unconditional love that will last for a lifetime might not come at this time yet. Take each day as it comes until love will find you. Wait for the right moment and do not make any crazy effort facilitating whatever you have with the wrong man. Drawing too much effort to create the kind of love you want may fail and hurt you more than you ever imagine. Face the mirror and see yourself eye to eye. Look at the woman in the mirror and tell her to back off a little and stop looking for that loving anywhere. It will come if it will come.

The person who is going to love you for who and what you are will come in the right time, at that perfect moment. I am going to tell you a short story. Four months ago, a man trying to find someone went to Yahoo Messenger for a chat. A woman who was trying to find someone but felt bored from being alone also went to Yahoo Messenger to chat. The man finds the woman and they fell in love. It was a love at first video chat. Funny but the relationship still exist and keep on getting stronger at this time. It was the first online relationship the woman has at Yahoo for many years since she started chatting.

Realize that when a heart beat it will beat for whomever whatever you find at the right moment. Do not get frustrated if you cannot find him yet. He will come when it is time! Just wait and he will come! Wait and that loving will come!

Somewhere somehow….

Standing in our silence
I hear my heart beating
And if only I could choose
Id stay here with you
But hold me til the train is leaving
Somewhere down the line
After youre gone from sight
Our love will be the same
And, whispering your name,
Ill cling to you with all my might

Let me dream of you
But its true
And wake me up when this is over
Love will be there when this is over and

Chorus:
Somewhere far beyond today
I will find a way to find you
And somehow thru the lonely nights
I will leave a light in the dark
Let it lead you to my heart

Theres a love inside us
Deep down inside
That goes without saying
Dont say a word
But Ill tell you just the same
And that love will fan the flame
And that flame will warm the heart thats waiting

You are mine and Ill wait for you my love
You are mine it may take some time
Even if it takes a lifetime
Tell me youll wait

Chorus

Bridge:
And somewhere alone
I will be praying you home
I know that somehow our love

Our love will lead me to your arms

Chorus

Finding the perfect love

Finding the right man who can offer the perfect love you desire is a myth. In this present world where men and women are looking for the appropriate loving and caring, one may find self in the middle of the crossroad between culture, personal values and modern day terminology called fun or sex. Interracial dating is a good way to discover and be a part of other culture’s romantic world. Men and women, boys and girls, wanting to find their desired marriage material partners come online to meet other people in other countries thousand of miles away.

Many use the Yahoo Messenger chat rooms, MSN chat, and other online dating sites using different names and different countries of origin. No one could ever know the real person you are talking and discussing your feelings unless they come to their minds and reveal who they really are in the real world. If we are going to analyze the behavior, relationships online usually begins with lies - lies on who they are, lies on their person, and lies about themselves! There is only a one in a million probability that you will meet a real nice person who will be frank and honest enough to tell about them.

What are the usual reasons about lying? First is safety and security. There are many bad people anywhere in the physical world, more on the virtual world, which is easy to infiltrate if they want to. Second, people go online to look for fun before emotional involvement, which is the normal trend in online dating, knowing that they are thousands of miles away. I just hope that those who seek for fun will also go for those who seek the same and not victimized women who are sincere enough to give their hearts and emotions. This trend is quite damaging for the serious and sincere women looking for the right partner to love and live with in the net. Third, many men do not actually believe in online dating and relationships. They are just in the net for the fun and thrill of meeting women and other people, do their natural thing of engaging women to like them, and trick them into believing they actually like them.

Many people come to the virtual world because they cannot find what they want in the physical world. The only question that hangs in the air is, “Why do all sorts of superficial acts if you want to make virtual relationships a reality?” Success in any relationships requires time and lots of patience understanding the meanings and context of the words and actions of your online partner. It is not a mere hi and hello then goodbye. Couples need to understand that they need to experience real adjustment online first going to meet in the physical world. And if they do not want to meet in the physical world because they cannot fully trust their online partners or do not believe in the success of any online dating relationships, then tell your partner from the very start of the loving relationship about your concept so she may not expect much from the relationship too.

The best language of love is caring

I realized that people may not be able to maintain their relationships if one stops caring. The only way I see that you can sustain a harmonious relationship is to care really on how your partner think and feel. Needs are met at a different level in your relationship. If you love your man and are willing to keep him and your relationship then you need to let go of some of your needs to accommodate his needs.

In a relationship, there is what we call as insensitivity and not keeping the balance of giving and receiving. Men are sometimes sweet but most of the times are what we call as cold and uncaring. It is very difficult to understand them if you really would look into it because they are not as expressive as much as women wants them to be. So step one. Forget about your needs and accommodate his needs first. Step two. Stop looking for more expressions because he only can express what he can express. Do not look for more.

If you can live with the first two steps, then you can faithfully do the third step. Love him! Just love him without expecting much in return. Do you think you can live with that? Lol women nowadays are takers too. They want something in return. Of course, who would not want their emotions reciprocated? Nevertheless, in this world there are men who just lack the energy and the expressions to give more of what they have because it is what they are. If you can live with it, then expect that you will be the one adjusting and showing more of the loving expressions than him. Well if you are comfortable with this situation then you will live lol. Happy loving!

Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah
Mum mum mum mah

I wanna hold em like they do in Texas Plays
Fold em let em hit me raise it baby stay with me, I love it
Luck and intuition play the cards with Spades to start
And after he's been hooked I'll play the one that's on his heart

Oh, oh, oh
I'll get him hot, show him what I've got
Oh, oh, oh
I'll get him hot, show him what I've got

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)

I wanna roll with him a hard pair we will be
A little gambling is fun when you're with me, I love it
Russian Roulette is not the same without a gun
And baby when it's love if it's not rough it isn't fun, fun

Oh, oh, oh
I'll get him hot, show him what I've got
Oh, oh, oh
I'll get him hot, show him what I've got

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
(Mum mum mum mah)
(Mum mum mum mah)

I won't tell you that I love you
Kiss or hug you
Cause I'm bluffin' with my muffin
I'm not lying I'm just stunnin' with my love-glue-gunning

Just like a chick in the casino
Take your bank before I pay you out
I promise this, promise this
Check this hand cause I'm marvelous

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)
Can't read my, can't read my
No he can't read my poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(She's got to love nobody)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)

P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
(Mum mum mum mah)

Unconditional love is a rare gift of being

People, as we know it, are always in search of something. They seek ways to get what they want and often fail too. The question is, why do relationships fail?

Relationships fail because people only look for what they want. They do not think of what they can give. The law of nature is always giving what you want to receive. If you want to receive back unconditional lasting love then give to the world unconditional lasting love.

When you find someone that, you really want to love and take care for the rest of your life, give him the rare gift of being – unconditional lasting love. There is also a glitch to the system of loving. The person you love may cause you a lot of heartache and may not reciprocate what you give.

Relationships are two way: he gives and he receives as you give and you receive back love. If the system is not satisfied, then stop for a while and think if you are going to pursue with the relationship. I for one thing, will hold on to the relationship if there is a lot of reason to hold on – I love him! But sometimes loving is not enough, you need to be practical and realistic!

Enjoy the moment he is with you and take each day as it comes! He may or may not give more than he is capable of giving and loving. If you truly love him, then love him. If you think you had enough, then gradually drop him!

I’m yours dear! Love ya!

“Darling I never felt like this before in my life. I love you more each day! For sure, I will love and serve you until we grow old and part with our last breath in this world. You know how much I feel for you and that feeling is even growing each day as we talk and share whatever makes us happy or even quarrel at times lol. Do what you have to do even though I do not understand some things. I am confident you will be true to me as I will be true to you. I’m yours forever dear. I love you very much!”

Say, it with words, let your heart out. Let your heart beat and serve your love one all through your lifetime. It does not matter if you start from scratch. You only have to support each other every step of the way. There could be quarrels, painful quarrels at times. If you truly love each other, you will learn to accept the bad things as well as the good things. For love is not for the good things and fun only. It is all about acceptance, being a part of each other’s lives, and combining efforts to strive to live a better peaceful happy life together. The two of you can live a new life together. Love matters in everything that you do, not money, not appearances, not social status! Love and you will be happy.

Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks
and now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out
I'll be giving it my bestest
Nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love
Listen to the music of the moment maybe sing with me
A la peaceful melodies
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love loved love love

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and laughed
I guess what I'm saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do
Our name is our virtue

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
No need to complicate
Our time is short
It can not wait, I'm yours

Well no no, well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment come and dance with me
A la one big family (2nd time: A la happy family)
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love love love

I won't hesitate no more
Oh no more no more no more
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved, I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No I won't hesitate no more, no more
This cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours, I'm yours